How wrong I am
I am very moody now. I was damm full and he asked me to eat dinner. I thought it would be very impolite not eating so I wanted to eat abit. However, he took the food for me alr, I tried to cut half. However, he dun let me to do so. He forced me to eat all if not he would think I dun like his food and dun appreciate his effort. I felt so angry so I throw the food to the plate. I was so bad. But at that point in time I felt that wat he tried to do, initially to make me happy, give good things for me but actually it just made me pissed and guilty. And I remeber Ngoc's story last time also. That's y i do so. Am I right or worng? I made people pissed now
posted by ichokohy @ 6:39 AM
3 Comments:
Sinc I wasn't in the situation.. I am not too sure to say anything... Since you are full and just say no .. you cannot take anymore food .. Don't have to care if you dont eat ... people will be sad... sometime they just try to be polite.. but it seems like they force you..actually it is not... OF course you should have never done that to him... why dont you just ignored what he tried to do...
I know it is hard to say something now in such situation... but he really forced you to eat you just don't eat if you dont want to..you dont have to express such feeling ... what you did today was condered a bit rude ... to him to everyone... and to the food( rice ) which is very important to respect and keep in mind tht rice is the neccesity that we need everyday... you throw it on the floor just because of your anger... it is quite undesirable... sorry for saying this ... I just think it is not good to throw the rice ... there is no harm if you just eat it and cannot finish it but just leave it instead of throwing it away... it is also his fault ... he should have forced other to eat the food when the person is already full... to tell someone to do something they don't want will possibly cause them to be angry very easily... so next time ... no need to ask them much.. just ask eat or not ? just yes or no answer is enough.... sometimes it is harmful to be nice to someone ...which is opposite of what people say " it is nice to be nice to someone" must see the reality, the situation before we do something... and also need compromise when things go wrong.. not just being angry all the time!
I am sorry .... feel free to yell at me if I say something wrong !!!
haha people... my best frns're here... that idiot was me. I never mean to make anyone unhappy, ok! especially you. It's just stupid of me who like playing without limitation. I know what i did. Just like to see people angry maybe... i didn't mean to force Ngoc to eat either, just play with her. For me, if i know you're a heavy eating person, i never ask u to eat more. Remember whatever happens, we're all friends... i love you and everyone. From that, at least we all gona remember how each one of us is like. big smile...
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